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Sinead O’Connor pens letter to Miley Cyrus *UPDATED


**Editor’s Note: Scroll to the bottom for an update**

Few women have had greater impact on my life than Sinead O’Connor. The first time I consciously purchased music, I bought I Do Not Want What I Have Not Got, on tape, from Target. I’ve followed her through that college-radio to sold-out stadium rise, her Pope ripping protest and American absence (Sinead O’Connor rips the Pope, 20 Years later), through her advocacy for the victims of the Catholic Church sex abuse scandal, and have run countless miles to her most recent, beautiful record: How About I Be Me (and You Be You).

In college I once wrote that O’Connor more than any other figure taught me about how to treat women, and though today that’s likely untrue, I admire her greatly. If it’s possible to love a stranger you know only through their art and words, I love Sinead O’Connor.

Which brings us to Miley Cyrus. Recently, Miley Cyrus cited Sinead O’Connor’s perfect and haunting Nothing Compares 2 U video as inspiration for her sledgehammer-licking Wrecking Ball video.

In response, O’Connor published an open letter to Ms. Cyrus on her website, expressing concern for the young pop idol and the music and media world of which she seems ignorant. The letter is long, but worth a read, touching on what it means to be a woman ogled, a pop star in a business that cares little for its stars, and finding respect and value as a creature of sexual appetites.

Pop culture media is a mighty ax, swung by those will little concern for the bodies standing in the way. O’Connor knows something about being bold without being exploited, and her words on the subject are valuable to everyone.

Dear Miley,

I wasn’t going to write this letter, but today i’ve been dodging phone calls from various newspapers who wished me to remark upon your having said in Rolling Stone your “Wrecking Ball” video was designed to be similar to the one for “Nothing Compares” … So this is what I need to say … And it is said in the spirit of motherliness and with love.

I am extremely concerned for you that those around you have led you to believe, or encouraged you in your own belief, that it is in any way “cool” to be naked and licking sledgehammers in your videos. It is in fact the case that you will obscure your talent by allowing yourself to be pimped, whether it’s the music business or yourself doing the pimping.

Nothing but harm will come in the long run, from allowing yourself to be exploited, and it is absolutely NOT in ANY way an empowerment of yourself or any other young women, for you to send across the message that you are to be valued (even by you) more for your sexual appeal than your obvious talent.

I am happy to hear I am somewhat of a role model for you and I hope that because of that you will pay close attention to what I am telling you.

The music business doesn’t give a sh– about you, or any of us. They will prostitute you for all you are worth, and cleverly make you think its what YOU wanted.. and when you end up in rehab as a result of being prostituted, “they” will be sunning themselves on their yachts in Antigua, which they bought by selling your body and you will find yourself very alone.

None of the men oggling you give a sh– about you either, do not be fooled. Many’s the woman mistook lust for love. If they want you sexually that doesn’t mean they give a f— about you. All the more true when you unwittingly give the impression you don’t give much of a f— about yourself. And when you employ people who give the impression they don’t give much of a f— about you either. No one who cares about you could support your being pimped.. and that includes you yourself.

Yes, I’m suggesting you don’t care for yourself. That has to change. You ought be protected as a precious young lady by anyone in your employ and anyone around you, including you. This is a dangerous world. We don’t encourage our daughters to walk around naked in it because it makes them prey for animals and less than animals, a distressing majority of whom work in the music industry and its associated media.

You are worth more than your body or your sexual appeal. The world of showbiz doesn’t see things that way, they like things to be seen the other way, whether they are magazines who want you on their cover, or whatever.. Don’t be under any illusions.. ALL of them want you because they’re making money off your youth and your beauty.. which they could not do except for the fact your youth makes you blind to the evils of show business. If you have an innocent heart you can’t recognise those who do not.

I repeat, you have enough talent that you don’t need to let the music business make a prostitute of you. You shouldn’t let them make a fool of you either. Don’t think for a moment that any of them give a flying f— about you. They’re there for the money.. we’re there for the music. It has always been that way and it will always be that way. The sooner a young lady gets to know that, the sooner she can be REALLY in control.

You also said in Rolling Stone that your look is based on mine. The look I chose, I chose on purpose at a time when my record company were encouraging me to do what you have done. I felt I would rather be judged on my talent and not my looks. I am happy that I made that choice, not least because I do not find myself on the proverbial rag heap now that I am almost 47 yrs of age.. which unfortunately many female artists who have based their image around their sexuality, end up on when they reach middle age.

Real empowerment of yourself as a woman would be to in future refuse to exploit your body or your sexuality in order for men to make money from you. I needn’t even ask the question.. I’ve been in the business long enough to know that men are making more money than you are from you getting naked. It’s really not at all cool. And it’s sending dangerous signals to other young women. Please in future say no when you are asked to prostitute yourself. Your body is for you and your boyfriend. It isn’t for every spunk-spewing dirtbag on the net, or every greedy record company executive to buy his mistresses diamonds with.

As for the shedding of the Hannah Montana image.. whoever is telling you getting naked is the way to do that does absolutely NOT respect your talent, or you as a young lady. Your records are good enough for you not to need any shedding of Hannah Montana. She’s waaaaaaay gone by now.. Not because you got naked but because you make great records.

Whether we like it or not, us females in the industry are role models and as such we have to be extremely careful what messages we send to other women. The message you keep sending is that it’s somehow cool to be prostituted.. it’s so not cool Miley.. it’s dangerous. Women are to be valued for so much more than their sexuality. we aren’t merely objects of desire. I would be encouraging you to send healthier messages to your peers.. that they and you are worth more than what is currently going on in your career. Kindly fire any motherf—er who hasn’t expressed alarm, because they don’t care about you.


Miley Cyrus has responded to O’Connor’s letter on Twitter.

What you see here is a tweet from Cyrus reading: Before Amanda Bynes…There was…, attached to a still image of a series of tweets from Sinead O’Connor. O’Connor’s tweets are from 2012, asking her Irish followers for available psychiatric assistance in the wake of on-going depression and an attempt by O’Connor to take her own life.

That Miley Cyrus equates this episode, which led O’Connor to leave Twitter but created an open discussion about mental health awareness in Ireland that she was much praised for, with the conversation about using women’s bodies as sexual objects to sell music is both a tragic failure of empathy and intellect, and further evidence that Ms. Cyrus is indeed in need of help, or at least some growing up.

It’s perfectly acceptable for Miley Cyrus to reject the lecture of an old and no-fun Sinead O’Connor, if that’s how she perceives O’Connor and her letter. She’s an adult; she can do what she wants.

But O’Connor has long been outspoken about her history of mental illness. Speaking out publicly for aid in such times takes courage. It’s not a joke for Cyrus to make in defense of her outrageously sexualized musical and public performance.

*Editor’s note: This article has been edited for clarity.

7 thoughts on “Sinead O’Connor pens letter to Miley Cyrus *UPDATED

  1. Pingback: Sinead O’Connor is (mostly) right about Miley Cyrus. Let the ageism and sexism begin! | Feminist Current

    • I did see Amanda Palmer’s letter actually, and I agree with you. Not a big fan of “Amanda Fucking Palmer” but I think Amanda Palmer’s insights are useful.

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